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My Inner Cheerleader

When I was in junior high, I wanted nothing more than to be a cheerleader. Cheerleaders, to me, were the epitome of female power and...

Your Ego Is Not Your Amigo

Spotted on 4th Ave in Tucson at one of my very favorite establishments, Antigone Books: a bumper sticker sporting the phrase, "Your Ego...

Faking It: Part 2

My name is Natalie and I used to fake orgasms. Hi, Natalie. And I'm not alone. In a study of 71 women, a whopping 80% of heterosexual...

Faking It: Part 1

"Fake it till you make it." We're told this a lot. And research suggests it may actually be a good strategy for getting ahead at work....

In the Driver's Seat

Do you ever get the feeling life is just happening around you? Perhaps it feels like you’re in the backseat, along for the ride. Or maybe...

On Stubbornness and the Curse of Refusing Help

I used to be like you. Who am I kidding, I still am. I hate when people say that. You know what else I hate? Those clickbait ads that say...